Recap: Parents as Civic Leaders

Reimagining Family Engagement in Today's Climate

September 19, 2025

The first Early Childhood Coffee and Conversation of the season was held online on September 19 with the theme Parents as Civic Leaders: Reimagining Family Engagement in Today’s Climate.  

A welcome from TBF’s Senior Program Officer, Child Well-Being Danubia Camargos Silva and opening remarks from Boston Opportunity Agenda Executive Director Ayesha Cammaerts set the stage for the morning’s conversation. Family engagement in child care supports children’s development, of course, but—especially given current challenges imposed by the dramatically shifting sands of federal policy and funding—it is also an act of civic leadership. And in that, it can be an essential step toward advocacy and systemic change. 

With this construct in mind, the panel of leaders, advocates, and experts from across the child-care sector discussed how families can shape civic engagement, policy, and the future of our Commonwealth when they help transform child-serving systems. To open the conversation, Camargos Silva invited the panelists, Families First Executive Director Sue Covitz, independent consultant and family engagement specialist Magda Rodriguez, and Family Nurturing Center Executive Director Emma Tobin, to share their personal stories as parents, educators, or organizers.  

The topic expanded from there, repeatedly circling back to trust, inclusion, and the ongoing importance of data to measuring progress. Covitz emphasized the need to “center parents as driving decision making.” Rodriguez said, “Families already lead. Our role is to honor and support them. They are the architects and we need to trust and fund what they say is important.” In speaking of budgeting, Tobin noted, “Service providers use data to plan their programs and determine budgets,” and Rodriguez concurred suggesting strategic planning refreshed every few years would help determine the scope of data collection. 

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Welcome
Danubia Camargos Silva, Senior Program Officer, Child Well-Being, The Boston Foundation

Opening Remarks
Ayesha Cammaerts, Executive Director, Boston Opportunity Agenda

Panel Discussion and Audience Q&A
Sue Covitz, Executive Director, Families First
Magda Rodriguez, Family Engagement Specialist, Independent Consultant
Emma Tobin, Executive Director, Family Nurturing Center
Moderator: Danubia Camargos Silva

As always in the online Coffee & Conversation model, comments posted by audience members in the chat enriched the discussion. For example, when Camargos Silva posed the question, “How do you define family engagement and why is it important in your work or community?” people shared: 

"Families know best what families need. Family engagement helps us work better." 

"'Nothing for you without you' is my mantra when it comes to program design and family engagement. I define it as a meaningful/circular partnership." 

"Parents are their child’s first teachers. They bring knowledge about their child and are a great resource to teachers. Family engagement is the link between the parents, teachers, and community." 

"Engaging with families within their communities is crucial to any work where the goal is to serve the public. They know best what they need and what works well for them. Family engagement is key to a strong healthy community." 

The engagement of all in the virtual room reveals the ongoing importance of family engagement not only to each child’s well-being but to the health of early childhood systems and to empowering caretakers as influential civic players in their own right. As Cammaerts said, “This is the moment to stand up and to keep showing up and creating safe and flexible spaces, both in person, online, and in smaller close relationship connections for families to engage. Safe and trusted spaces and time are critical parts of supporting parents as civic leaders.”